A Guide for Living Together Without Growing Apart

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and Respect in Your Relationship?

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  • "I feel like I had a breakthrough in my own life and an understanding of myself. The tears just started flowing and I felt a huge release. I feel new."

  • "You offer words of advice in an encouraging and empowering manner, which is reassuring to anyone struggling with personal issues."

  • "It is helping me shed some light on my relationship problems and what needs to be there to have a respectable, long-term relationship."

Take A Glimpse Inside It's Not You, It's Us

This powerful new relationship book helps couples get more love in their lives, starting with themselves. It explores:

  1. living together before marriage
  2. emotional distance
  3. having kids, stepchildren and pets
  4. sex and desire
  5. division of labour
  6. money, communication and conflict
  7. family issues
  8. personal growth and happiness
  9. And so much more...
It's Not You, It's Us explains how to create a relationship where both partners feel safe to be themselves, and can continue to grow and develop as individuals and as a couple. Read it, and get the tools you need to create your own happily ever after.

About The Author

Author Sophie Winters spent nearly two years researching and writing this guidebook. It's Not You, It's Us draws real world examples from her own relationship, other couples, family therapists, a documentary filmmaker, and other authors and experts. 
This isn’t your average relationship advice book: there are personal stories, examples, and exercises at the end of most chapters so you can immediately take action on what you’ve learned. Sophie even provides bonus materials for readers who want to take a deeper dive into a topic beyond the book. You will have a hard time finding another relationship book that covers so many topics, so powerfully and so personally.

With warmth and wisdom, Sophie shares the lessons on what it takes to live together without growing apart.
Sophie Winters is the author of two books on dating and relationships. She helps people find more love in their lives, starting with themselves. Visit her at

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